It Hurts To Hurt was designed to help all people who are hurting...
Together we can make a deference...
If you have ever been abused mentally,physically or sexually then this blog is for you... If you suffer from depression anxiety & phobias then this blog is for you... This is a self help blog... You will find all sorts of good info here... Inspirational Video's to watch... Books to read... Inspiration quotes and books... Books on bulling, relationships, depression,ect. ect. ect.
Hi, my name is Frank Brondum and I once suffered from all these things an more... I wanted to share my story with you to let you know, there is hope... I was abused as a child growing up... Mentally, physically, and sexually... I knew at the age of 24, after the fail of my first marriage, I had to do something... Something to change me... I had to break the cycle of abuse... Well, I am 58 now and I have three wonderful kids the youngest is 6... Below is a picture of all of us...
The oldest is Nicholas he just turned 25... Then there is Ricky he is 14 he is my brain child... Savannah the youngest and the boss of us all... She is 6 but she thinks she's thirty... She tells us what we are going to eat, when to go to bed, who's turn it is to clean the dishes, and when it time to play with her... LOL I use to think as I was trying to change myself why am I doing this... I now know why... I am a happy man who loves his kids, an most importantly, they love me an call me Daddy... :)
Change wasn't easy but change did come about... There were times when I just wanted to quit... But I never surrender... I never quit... I was bound an determined to change... So, I bought self help books, tapes, anything, that I thought would an could help me... I learned about how to change, the way I think an act... I had to change that little voice inside my head... I had to shut him down... You know the one that says you can't do that, your not good enough... Your not smart enough, or your just a loser, a dummy, you will never amount to anything... Well I started seeing break troughs, I started to see changes in myself that I liked... I started liking me... (How cool is that)... But the best part is other people started liking me too... So now, I am a good Dad, a great friend, a wonderful lover, and a kick to be around... Least that's what my kids wife an friends say... Oh you may ask what about my wife... Well she is a lot more private than I am... She asked me not talk about her put pictures of her on here... So I respect her enough not to put her picture on here... I will say this though, she looks just like my baby girl...
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